yourbigsisnissi:

rendzina:

over coffee with my mom this morning: “sometimes we hesitate to invite people into our life because we feel like our space isn’t good enough yet. things are a little messy, or our place settings don’t match, or our situation isn’t quite what we want it to be. don’t let that stop you. invite people in anyway.”

Unless your “mess” will cause you to traumatize abuse or mistreat other people

Then deal with that “mess” first

studylikegeller:

mulletlove:

questions to ask yourself when you want to use an unhealthy coping mechanism

• why do i want to hurt myself? what will blaming myself reinforce? who taught me i am not allowed to make mistakes? who benifits from this?
• am i feeling overwhelmed? what’s really bothering me? can i write it down? what am i avoiding thinking about?
• am i reacting rationally? what would i tell a friend who was experiencing this? what can i learn from this? isn’t that what’s important?
• am i god? do i control everything? is worrying going to serve a purpose?

drivememadd:

local bitch decides to daydream instead of getting a degree

3rdfloorwestside:

lesbwian:

tbh when Jameela Jamil was calling these celebrities the fuck out and she said “How much money do you need? Really how much money do you need? How much money do any of these huge influencers who are worth millions or billions sometimes… How much more?” i felt that in my bones

When she called the Kardashians “double agents for the patriachry” for profiting off a patriarchal narrative and selling women self consciousness, I felt that on a spiritual level.

madamebomb:

flower-lesbienne:

gunsandfireandshit:

casbean:

harryngtonewithyourshit:

beardedchrisevans:

Is Chris Evans Steve Rogers or is Steve Rogers Chris Evans?

good

“Fellas, is it gay to be a good father?”

Shout out to Harry Hill

You’re doing good work, Harry.

nikkimariesworld:

Light a candle directly in front of your automatic Glade spray air freshener that way every 9 minutes a fireball shoots across your living room table, intimidating your house guests, asserting your dominance in your domain

jaythenerdkid-official:

seashellronan:

people i make myself look good for:

• myself
• gay women
• my friends so they go “damn bitch u look fucking good” whenever i enter the room

• drunk girls in bathrooms

protect-and-love-animals:

thatpettyblackgirl:

medusasstory:

necromancy-savant:

dps-winston:

deadmomjokes:

words-writ-in-starlight:

lady-mallea:

guardgirll:

1. Just because you took 7 classes in high school doesn’t mean you can manage 7 classes in college.
2. Just because you woke up at 6am everyday in high school doesn’t mean you can wake up at 6am everyday in college.
3. Just because you got straight A’s in high school doesn’t mean you’ll necessarily get straight A’s in college (and that’s okay).
4. Just because your teachers in high school said they were preparing you for college doesn’t mean you’re actually prepared for college.

5. If your advisor says it’s too much, it’s too much.

6. If Health Services says to take a day off, take a day off.

7. If you have flu symptoms, do not go to class, you don’t want to be the start of an epidemic.

8. If you have a diagnosed disability (including mental illness) you can get a lot of accommodations including stuff that you might not expect, like making teachers accept late work

9. 99% of your problems can be solved by talking to the professor and doing it earlier rather than later.

10. If you find yourself panicking through an assignment because you’re not sure you know what you’re doing— ESPECIALLY if you are looking at a couple of similar assignments— go to an advisor and ask them for help. Especially if it’s something “simple” like how to structure a response paper. That anxiety, ongoing, can burn you out.

magedoc:

genderists:

there’s a chinese exchange student in my composition class and we were being presented something about how you can use brackets to signify translation and there was chinese text on the screen and the prof said to him “what does that say?” and he deadpanned “i can’t speak chinese” and everyone sat there in dumbfounded silence and then the presenter clicked to show that the text literally said “i can’t speak chinese” with the most shit-eating grin on his face

Chaotic Neutral